Life is precious

Life is but a bundle of emotions.Happy,sorrow,ecstasy etc.Emotions are not born out of isolation but are born out of the situations we undergo.People around us are also a factor to it.They not only say about things which makes us happy but also which can make us feel sick & sad.
For example QUESTIONS!!!
People put us through a lot of questions many times.Though we may not be responsible to answer them all the time but these questions do make us feel very awkward.Those who put these Q 's may just feel it very normal or just because they are concerned about us.But sometimes,some Q's just really hurts us & we keep searching for words to answer them or excuses to run away from that place without answering them.

See some commom Q's........................

A small kid is asked what he would become when he grows up?
"Tell me cutie baby,would u become an engineer or a doctor when u grow up?"
The poor kid even doesn't understand what the Q. is about and answers it as said by his parents.

As soon as the kid is in school & even as his college studies are about to complete Q's about his job surfaces.If he is lucky enough to find a job that's great, but if not the questioning torture welcomes him where ever he goes.
"Dear,what about your job trails?My uncle's cousins daughters brother-in-law got it in some company.Why don't u try there? Contact some Mr.X.He may help you etc etc."
The poor chap hides himself under his bed & never even dare to attend any family function or get together.

As he successfully finds a job after alot of struggle,folks around him keep on asking only one question"When are the marriage bells going to ring?? Have u started looking for any marriage
proposal or not?When will u tie the knot?Ever thing has to be done in proper time. Still u didn't find any suitable match!!??i know some proposals etc etc...."
The poor souls has to do a matrix feat to escape answering all these Q's.

At last he finds his soul-mate & they start their happy life.Even as they are just back from their honey-moon,in-laws,uncles,aunts,friends,colleagues,neighbours, milk boy, paper boy,saloon boy,
who not, every one they know feel it as it is their greatest responsibility to ask them only one big Q.& as if it is the only bothering Q in the world
" When are you telling us the good news?Family is not complete without kids.Do some prayers & perform these rituals,consult a doc etc. etc. etc...."
The poor couple doesn't know how to satisfy others with their answers.They helplessly face these Q's & get fed up answering where ever they go and are forced to avoid these people.

See how strange life is.Though we think that we are the boss of our lives but yet it is controlled by the society because society feels that every person here has the moral responsibility to answer to its questions.We have learned to live with it because we are the society & we are nothing without these same people who some times bother us because they are our best friends,our relatives,our well-wishers,our good old neighbours,our childhood friends,our helpful colleagues & most importantly these are the people who feel concerned for us.

So leave behind all their bothering questions by not paying tooooo much attention to it.Just take it lightly because the society is as such.Even u too never knew for how many times u have bothered others with ur questions.

Life is precious & short lived.Take our life into your hands.
Live happily & let others too live happliy.